How to Improve Society
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This post may be controversial. Be warned. Last Friday an armed 24-year-old University of Colorado student stepped into a packed theatre where an audience filled to capacity was fifteen minutes into the new Batman film. He was dressed in body armor and carried weapons including tear gas and an assault rifle capable of firing sixty rounds a minute.
He opened fire, killing twelve people, including a six-year-old girl who had just learned to swim, and wounded 58 others.
Yesterday, he began preliminary trials on charges of homicide. It’s doubtful we’ll ever know why he did this or what led him to this atrocity. I imagine his family is in a state of disbelief and wonder what they did wrong. His victims’ families are grieving for their lost family members. No answer will bring them back. Our hearts go out to these families.
When I was a young man, a friend of mine and I dressed in Army fatigues and carried Uzi machine water guns into our high school a few days before school ended. We were seniors and thought it would be fun taking a few teachers and the vice principal (we referred to him as The Terminator) hostage.
We succeeded, including taking over the vice principal’s office and using the school’s PA system to announce to the school our nefarious plot. The teachers, the vice principal, and the students all played along. It was fun. A prank. This was 1986. Had we been born a few years later, the school would have had a security guard or an on-campus police officer, and we would have been shot dead.
What has happened in a few short years where we hear daily of people committing acts of hatred and aggression? I imagine that there are a number of reasons including the disintegration of the family unit, where the natural mentoring process has broken down and people receive tutoring from mediums and teachers that do not inspire or lift. I also believe that the aggression we see has to do with what we watch and experience (regardless of what the authorities say).
It’s inevitable that a certain percentage of those who view pornography will be attracted to act out their fantasies to experience the endorphin release that makes them an addict. Like a drug user, the pornography addict needs harder-core material to achieve the same high. Research this topic. You’ll find enough studies supporting this theory that you’ll wonder why we allow pornography to legally creep from soft to hard to the underground and illegal that is too inhuman to discuss.
Likewise, it’s inevitable that a certain percentage of those who spend time playing violent video games will be attracted to act out their fantasies to experience that endorphin release which makes them addicted to killing people virtually.
I realize that we do not know whether James Holmes was addicted to violent video games. I realize that there are no conclusive studies of whether playing violent video games encourages someone to kill another. (We do have evidence that marathon gaming has killed players in the act of playing long hours without rest or food.)
I write of the overall thread of societal breakdown, where we wonder what the consequence is or the actions will be of those who entertain a steady diet of infidelity and killing. I contend that nothing positive comes from either behavior.
Can we legislate our way out of this malaise? No. John Adams said that the United States constitution was written for a moral people and is entirely inadequate for any other. I do not agree with legislation that removes a society’s freedoms in any way. By having freedom to choose and act we receive the positive and negative consequences of our actions and we are able as a society to correct behavior. Consequence, in my opinion, is the best educator.
The way to improve this aspect of society is through an understanding that filling our minds with prurient and violent material is inviting a percentage of our population to default to extreme negative behavior. We must educate our society, focusing on each generation, teaching children that there is consequence to individual behavior, even if that behavior is in the privacy of their own rooms or minds. Teach them to replace the vulgar with the inspiring. Teach them to replace infidelity with integrity. Teach them that morality is not relative or a moving target. Teach them that there is still right and wrong and that small decisions lead to big actions.
Perhaps we should stand with the late martyr Paul, regardless of religious persuasion, and believe that “if there is anything virtuous, lovely, or of good report" we should seek after these things.
For wholesome games and activities you can play as a family, check out
52 Activities for Family Fun by Laura Torres.