Setting Family Goals
There are a lot of articles circulating about goals and how to accomplish them. These articles focus on business goals, fitness goals, weight loss goals, bucket list goals . . . At Familius we have yet to read an article focused on family goals. Here are five ideas to help you begin setting family goals for 2013:
1. Hold a family council each week that allows for discussion on what the family needs and wants are. This is an opportunity to explore what matters most and what you can do to help the family succeed. For specific information on family counsils, please read Cynthia MacGregor’s article Family Council, Family Business;
2. Set a specific date for a family vacation. While taking time as a family each week is important, finding some get-away time to build memories is key to a successful family. Better yet, find a week each year that can be the traditional vacation so that as children grow they can continue to look forward to this time of year, even when they are married and have families of their own;
3. Create a Family Night: A family night is one night each week that encourages the family to get together and learn, play, and strengthen their bonds. If religious the family may begin with prayer. Usually the father or mother leads the family in some helpful life-lesson instruction, a game, and provides a treat. These family nights usually last no more than one hour, but are wonderful ways of scheduling family time;
4. Date Night: If you are married, set a goal to take your spouse on a date each week. This should be on the same night at the same time each week to help consistency;
5. Education: In your family council, pick something that you’d all like to learn or do, like be scuba certified or speak Italian or cook Indian food.
By setting and achieving family goals you will find that your accomplishments bring an added joy because your family did them alongside you.