No I in TEAM
In a weekly meeting someone reminded us of all the success we had been achieving and then said, “Remember, there is no I in TEAM.”
Families are teams. While made up of few or many individuals, focusing on our family goals, whether peace, education, service, saving for a family vacation, having weekly dinner together or a family night, what is required is the same thing that all good teams require—individual execution of assigned responsibility.
Help your family members to understand what their roles are and encourage them to succeed in those roles. Dads need to be dads. Moms need to be moms. Teenagers, whether we like it or not, should be teenagers. It’s their job and we all got to have that job and they should enjoy the opportunity of it and expect to learn from its challenges. Toddlers are toddlers, etc.
It takes patience, education, and constant loving coaching. The result, however, is a family that can change the world around them for good because they are a team.